foo, on Jan 17 2009, 01:42 PM, said:
No one board is worth risking a bad session or damage to a partnership.
If your partner does not care whether you lead her bid suit or not, fine.
If your partner cares, but is willing to accept some rationale on your part for not leading her suit, then you have exactly the degree of flexibility in your decision making as the variance in the quality of the rationale she is willing to accept.
I completely agree that a partner who is too rigid about you leading their bid suit is not likely to make a good long term pairing.
But the bedrock principle I'm trying to get at is that you are !not! trying to get just a good score on any given board, you are trying to get a good score for the session, the event, and for all the events you play with partner.
Bluntly,
Do not casually overrule partner when they go out of the way to take the risk of giving you a hint as to what your lead should be.
Lead partner's bid suit unless you have a =very= good reason not to.
Don't mastermind. Play partnership bridge
On this auction and with the given hand on opening lead, you do not have a better lead than what partner has requested.
Frances is right. A heart. Every time.
Foo;
I'm sorry but I think this is a =very= patronizing attitude toward your partner.
My !session! is the sum total of the boards I play. There will be hands that we get right and hands we get wrong. If we've done our job, we should be north of 60% which will keep us in contention. All of our boards matter. I've never in my life used a mental crutch of refusing to think and just led partner's suit blindly. If you think a heart is correct, reason through it, but just don't lead it because you want to maintain some percerptual *harmony*.
For my money, if RHO weren't a passed hand, I would lead a heart and not think too much about it. In this case, RHO can have many hand types and a strong heart holding is not inferred. Even then a club could still be right, but I would lead a heart.
When my partners don't lead my suit, I don't think twice about it.