Posted 2025-December-12, 10:37
We only have the description of the OP (who may or may not have been at the table, may have heard this from a friend, or from East or South, or...) as to what South *said*.
"I couldn't see a reason why it would take so long to think, having not needed to on the opening lead, on the ♣Q switch, unless declarer did not hold the ♣J. So I played [the further defence]. Could you look at this, please, in case there was a better time to think?"
If you can't ask this, then how can you ever get a 73E2 ruling?
Or even "in this situation, given the quick play to trick 1, it should have been clear to declarer that the pause could generate this implication, and I'm not sure he was careful enough to avoid it."
And if the ruling comes back "here, I'll demonstrate the bridge reason for the pause at this time" (whether it was East who demonstrated it or the director), well, then, fine. If it doesn't - or even if it does, but a strong warning/penalty for "a player of your calibre should have been able to foresee this and work out what you would do at trick 1" (or, depending on the RA, "had you thought about the hand for 15 seconds or so before playing to trick 1 *as required by regulations*, you might have foreseen this. Having not done so, your requirement to 'be particularly careful when variations may work to [your] benefit' is strengthened."), then also fine.
It is absolutely valid to point out a potential violation of the proprieties. That can not be consummate with an accusation of cheating, or it would be impossible to get rectification for improper behaviour. Remember, intent is required for a claim of ethics; it is no more unethical to (without intent) fail to meet 73E2 (note: "could have been", not "was", aware) than it is to revoke.
Of course, if South's comment was intended as an ethical attack, that's a real problem. If South's comment was phrased in a way as to imply an ethical attack, it is also a real problem, but maybe a warning to be careful in phrasing in future. It won't be the first "How dare he do that - to *me*?" phrasing I have heard, and it definitely won't be the last.
I do agree that threading the line between "think we were damaged" and "declarer tried to pull one" can be difficult.
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